
Many people have commented to ask me what I believe about courtship and dating and I guess it's time I answered that question.
1.First of all, I do not believe that there is a set of rules that can be applied to every single dating/courtship relationship. For example: you may or may not think that it is acceptable to hold hands with the person you are in a relationship with, you may or may not think that your parents must accompany you on each outing with a person of the opposite sex. I would consider these issues to ones of personal conviction and do not think that it would be morally wrong if either hand holding or going to dinner as a couple with your parents took place.
2. I think that both sets of parents (both the man and the woman's) be a strong voice in a courtship or dating relationship between a couple. Without parental advice and supervision, it is likely that your relationship with the person of the opposite sex will result in a pure and beneficial friendship.
3. I think that calling a relationship with the opposite sex a "dating" or "courtship" is not as important as desiring to adhere to biblical standard and desiring to honor God in the relationship.
4. The day may come when I am to begin a relationship which is to determine whether or not I should marry a certain someone- what term would best describe this relationship? Hmm...I guess my parents and I will have to collaborate to come up for a good term for that. It will be something in between dating and courtship.
That's my two cents worth regarding courtship and dating. If you have anymore questions or concerns feel welcome to drop a comment to let me know! May you honor God in your relationships!
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