I used to think so too so I can realize where you're coming from if you still think so. I would look at them at scrutinize them and attempt to decipher what was different about them. More often than not it was their clothing or what they did for entertainment that made them different from me; that made them public school kids. I always thought that public school kids were looking at me and thinking about how weird I was when in reality, I was the one judging.
Perhaps it is because we hear so many stories of the tragic things that happen in public schools or the crimes that students commit that those of us who are home educated somehow think that we are better. While I strongly believe that home education is the best choice for educating children, I know that we are not superior because of our educational choices or academic pursuits. In God's eyes, education is not as important as whether or not we have a personal relationship with him and yet we sometimes forget that. We base our value of someone upon what we feel to be right instead of what God values.
Several years ago I came to the realization that public school students aren't my enemies; instead, I came to have several of them as friends and acquaintances. You know what, they are very nice people and they are much less likely to judge me than I had been to judge them. Looking back, I see how wrong it was for me to think that I knew what other's thought of me when I didn't even know them. Giving someone a chance is one of the best decision's you'll make because, as I found out, you can make new friends and remove the judgment you might have had about them. If you are a home educated student, or have been in the past, don't stick your nose up at public school students because they're just as important to God as you are.
P.S. Feel free to share your thoughts about this in a way that is kind and courteous of others.
To my public and private school friends out there-I am so thankful for each one of you because you have taught me things about myself that I didn't know.
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